Do you know that one out of every five students is coping with sex harassment in universities? Likewise, Do you ever think of that both male and female students are being threated for sex harassment by the both male and female lecturers in the universities of Nigeria. Do you know how many students are the victims of sex harassment? Have you ever think of that many students are giving opportunity of sex to their lecturers with a view to get a good grade?
Nearly, these days many newspapers reported how lecturers are misusing the privilege they have in assessing students through c.a test and examminatio, where virtually of them failed whoever refused to give her body for no matter how brilliant and intelligence she is whilst passed who so ever ludicrous student that gives her beautiful body for vice in exchange of good results in the universities. Hence, many students have became diffidents as they seeing their course mates who are burning the midnight oil getting better results than them.
Nevertheless, we are not here to canonize the evil ones amongst them and demonize the saints amongst them, we knew in every society we could find bad eggs no matter how the sacred of that society is. In this case, we knew many lectuerers who spurn even intermingle of students in the course of seat arrangement during lectures.
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Along line, we have knew that it was reported almost sixteen students in Bayero University, kano are being impregnated maybe by both students and their lecturer or otherwise, what would have panic the reader is that three out of them have been inflicted with HIV positive. To annoy you most all of them are only level one hudred students. In addition, what we are yet to know who are to blame for this evil acts? What lured them to enageage in this unconscionable act?
Furthermore, if we are to be fair and sincere the parents of these students because all those impragnated students were not force to have sex rather carry themselves willingly to the place where this demons acts happen. Thus, i have in conversation of one of my course mate she was telling me that she was just came school because she was forced by her parents but frankly nothing she needs above marriage. Many of these girls were victims of that because they are shy to tell their parents what the needs or because their parents would not understand them.
Meanwhile, how do you think such matured students would not required male when the need arises, some parents arw wrongly think that their daughter does not feel what they are feeling in fondle condition. By this reason many students fall under lesbianism, homosexualism becaue they want satisfy their desires while some easily having sex with every tom, dick and harry willingly to satisfy their amorous feeling.
Notwithstanding, we can not post blame only one side but to be faired we must blame the both sides, a friend of mind told me about his girl friend that now she is turning away from him without any solid reason, when he inquest her friends they told him that she was averted from him just because he was not fondling, caressing and touching her frequently. Because to them sex is an earthly pleasure.
In conclusion, for the limit of space and time if we are to nip sex for grade in the bud in the university both parents and university management should painstakingly put eyes on their students, ensue and follow who are their friends in their university, their source of income by the dint of hardworking of both parents and lecturers this sex for grade can be reduced even though it can,t be removed.
By umar babangida.
Dept of masscommunication BUK
